I had sex with a friend on Sunday...

I'm not saying who they are just was the first time I had made love to a friend not a girlfriend.

Only an hour ago I talked to a female mate from law school we found ourselves talking about the subject. They were surprised that I had never had sex with someone who was not my girlfriend at the time. When I look at my life I realise that really my view of the world is not a 1990s view or even a 1980s view but often a 1950s view maybe even a 1920s. Sex for both men and women has changed an awful lot since early last century.

Or has it changed at all...

Queen Victoria once said that the upper classes understood sex and the lower classes just had sex the problem with the middle-class was that they got hot under the collar about sex. The result has been that sex happened before marriage however it was hidden. My personal thought has been that our present attitudes towards sex have been around since world War two when people did not know if they would be a alive the next day never mind the next year. As time has gone by attitudes towards sex of relaxed more apart from sexually transmitted diseases like for example HIV.

And on that note I finished this posting of my blog...